How to Tell if You’re Compatible With Your Partner
Short answer: You are!
Long answer: No one but you has the right to tell you whether you should be with someone or not. Not your family member, friend, or astrologer! However, you can use astrology as a tool to help you understand your partner better, and vice versa!
A Synastry Chart will show you where your marvelous high roads are together as a couple - so you can lean into these - and where there may be sticky low roads - so you can navigate these with care (preferably over donuts and coffee 🍩☕).
As a reminder, ALL charts have high roads and low roads! Just because the low roads exist, doesn’t mean that you know them!
So, what is a Synastry Chart?
A Synastry Chart stacks your Natal Chart and your partner’s Natal Chart to show your dynamics as a couple!
How can I use a Synastry Chart?
Your Natal Chart shows you what you need from a relationship and how you show up in one, how you communicate and need to be communicated with, how you handle stress, what your inner emotional world is like, and the ways in which you think (and really so much more).
Therefore, a Synastry Chart will give you all of this information about yourself AND about your partner! Not only that, but because the charts are stacked on top of one another, you’ll also be able to understand how one affects the other.
For example, perhaps your Moon (which rules emotions) lights up your partner’s Neptune (which rules intuition) - this would bring an intuitive understanding of each other that is caring and gentle!
A reminder
As stated earlier, ALL charts have high roads and low roads, so it’s up to you and your partner to lean into your high roads and navigate any low roads - IF they come up!
The amazing thing about astrology is that you are given permission to be - and allow others to be! Astrology opens up endless avenues for tolerance and compassion, which can greatly help any kind of relationship!
Also, remember that all relationships require work - don’t let someone trick you into believing there is a magical, zero effort relationship out there!
Take it from me and my fiancé, Jerry. There was Adrianne and Jerry before Synastry (...13 years of that version of us) and there is Adrianne and Jerry after Synastry.
There’s a solid chance we would not be currently engaged if Synastry hadn’t come into the picture, to be fully transparent. Before Synastry, the way Jerry communicated used to drive me up the wall 🙃 I am overly articulate and conscious of my word choice (thanks to my Mercury placements and aspects) and Jerry is NOT 😂
Now, after Synastry, I am conscious of the fact that the way we communicate is fundamentally different, and that’s okay! We’re not all meant to communicate in the same way, handle stress in the same way, etc! And, I no longer want to pull all my hair out when he says whatever comes to mind with zero filter 😅
I stand by Synastry strongly as being THE thing that turned our entire relationship around!
Want to pull and interpret your very own Synastry Chart with your partner? Hop on a FREE connection call to find out how!
Permission to throw on your comfiest outfit, and grab a coffee, hot cocoa, or tea beforehand! We’ll see you on Zoom ❤️
